Ga Bambamcin Jarabebbiya Da Kuma Harijar Mace:

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 Bambamcin Jarabebbiya Da Kuma Harijar Mace:

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Mata ne guda biyu amma mabambamta a dabi'a na Jima'i. 

Mutane sun fi maida hankalinsu akan harijar mace, ba tare da sun fahimci tasirin da jarabebbiyar mace ke da shi ba. Wanda akasarin matan dake gidajenmu jarababbu ne.

 Wannan yasa maza da dama suka kasa fahimtar Harijar mace tafi saukin mu'amala fiye da ita jarabebbiyar mace. 

Harijar mace tana iya hakuri da Jima'i komai tsawon lokacin da zata dauka ba tare da ta shiga wani yanayi ba, amma ita Jarabebbiya bazata iya ba.

Ita harijar mace matsalarta shine, kada namiji ya tinkareta bai shirya ba. Domin macece da batasan idan an soma Jima'i a dakata ba.

 Macece da zata iya soma gudanar da Jima'i daga safe har wayewar gari bata gaji ba, kuma bata gamsu ba. Wannan yasa Allah Sai Ya bata jumriya da hakurin da zata iya zama ba tare da Jima'i ba kuma bata damu ba. Amma fa randa ta tashi yi sai namiji yasan ya hadu da mace.

 

Da wuya ka samu harijar mace tana Madugo saboda sukan dauki abun shirme, harija bata istimina, bare tayi amfani da gaban roba. Ita a kullum burinta taji gaban namiji a cikin gabanta. Da matukar wahala harijar mace taci amanar mijinta. Domin ita bata kamuwa da sha'awar namiji sai har idan ta tabbatar zai iya bugawa da ita ba wanda zai yi sau biyar bane yace a sarara ba zuwa anjima. 

Harija tana iya yin Jima'i yau sai ta dauki tsawon lokaci bata kula namiji ba tana harkokinta muddin aka mata shi da kyau. Matsalar harija kada ka soma abunda kasan ba zaka iya ba. Sai dai ana samun wasu harijen da ake hada musu duka biyu ga harijanci ga kuma jaraba. Wadannan kuma idan ka shiga hannunsu sai mu tausaya maka.

Wannan itace harija:

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Jarabebbiyar mace itace macen da ba zata iya yini guda ba bata yi Jima'i ba, idan son samu ne. Jarabebbiyar mace tana iya soma Jima'i yanzu cikin mintuna kadan ta samu gamsuwa.

 Kamin mijinta ya fito daga wanka tuni har sha'awar ta ya sake tashi so take a sake yi.

Jarabebbiyar mace bata da hakuri ko kadan wajen danne sha'awar ta.

Sune ko mantuwa miji yayi ya dawo dauka bazai fita ba sai ya yi.

Rashin hakurin da jarababbun mata suke da shi akan Jima'i yasa ake, samunsu cikin 'yan Madugo, zina da aurensu, yin istimina babu kaukautawa. 

Jarabebbiyar mace zata iya yin Jima'i da kowani irin namiji koda muharraminta ne muddin jarabanta ya motsa idan yaso daga baya ta dawo hayyacinta.

Wannan shine bambamcin dake tsakanin jarababbun mata da kuma mata harijai. 

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